When you hear the words emergency childbirth you might think of old police shows with mom giving birth in the bathroom with her older child being talked step-by-step through the childbirth by the operator on the 9-1-1 call. Or you might picture being stuck in a cabin in a snow storm with only your partner as the soap operas would have you believe.
Either way the thought has probably crossed your mind that you might be one of these women. First of all, let me tell you that this is very unlikely that your will experience an emergency childbirth. Secondly let me reassure you that when birth happens this quickly it's usually because everything is going very well (Unless you're preterm.).
Women delivering at a hospital or birth center may fear a rapid labor, or rush hour traffic for their trip. Women who are giving birth at home may fear that their practitioner won't arrive in time to catch the baby. No matter which you are it's a good idea to talk to your midwife or doctor about your fears. They can give you a few simple instructions and help calm your nerves.
What to do!
When you read these instructions you will find that they read more as a list of what not to do. That's because childbirth is a normal event, and rarely an illness.
- Don't panic. Remaining calm can help you focus on the birth, even if you are alone.
- Call your doctor, midwife, or 9-1-1 if you are able. If you are in your car, pull over and put on your blinkers. No use killing everyone by driving wildly, you're much safer having the baby in the car while it's stopped.
- Remind mother to try to pant, or only push very gently with the contractions.
- As the baby's head becomes visible, place your hand on the head and provide it with support to keep it from popping out. Remind mother to try and pant during this part to help prevent tearing. If you're alone, simply place your hands over the baby's head as best as possible.
- Do not pull on the baby or it's head! You may gently guide the baby out.
- Gently stroke downward on the baby's nose to help expel the excess mucus and amniotic fluid.
- Place the baby skin-to-skin on mom, with the baby's head slightly lower than it's body (to help facilitate draining the mucus). Cover both of them with dry blankets or towels.
- Don't cut or pull on the umbilical cord.
- If the placenta is born place it next to the baby, again do not cut the cord.
- Keep mom and baby safe until the practitioner arrives, or until help gets there. Or until you can get to the place of birth.