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How To Write a Birth Plan

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Writing a birth plan is a great way to get your ideas of what you would like your labor and birth to be like across to the people providing you care. Obviously this isn't a promise that it will go this, but this can be a great way to convey the spirit of what you're looking for in your birth.
Difficulty: Average
Time Required: 60 minutes

Here's How:

  1. Brainstorm a list of some of your desires for the birth.
  2. Arrange them in order of importance.
  3. Learn what you can about the options you've chosen to see if they are compatible with each other.
  4. Learn about the policies where you'll be giving birth.
  5. Begin by forming bulleted points for each phase of your birth: Labor, Birth, Postpartum, Baby Care.
  6. Remove any points that are unnecessary. An example might be, if you know that it is standard at the hospital or birth center to allow visitors, don't ask for visitors.
  7. Show the plan to your partner. Discuss their concerns.
  8. Show the plan to your practitioner(s) and your doula.
  9. Have everyone, including the pediatrician, sign the birth plan.
  10. Give copies of the birth plan to the hospital/birth center, and everyone involved.
  11. Keep the original with you in your labor bag.

Tips:

  1. Keep it simple and short!
  2. Keep it positive in tone. Let those around you know how to help you.
  3. Be flexible. Remember that you're not always going to get everything on your birth plan.

What You Need

  • Paper
  • Labor Information

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