- If some pervert, male or female, touches your belly without permission, do one of three things: touch theirs - they'll soon realise how wrong it feels, smack them in the face, or insist the police arrest them for assault or/and harassment since there is no law that says you give up your right not to be touched by random strangers when you are pregnant
- —Guest Me
Family ok, strangers back off!!!
- I'm currently 23 weeks preggers. I think it's the sweetest thing when my hubby or other family members rub my belly. My daddy (who lives 4 1/2 hrs away) has to kiss my belly and rub it when we leave to come home, which is fine with me. He's very excited about his granddaughter. I've not had any strangers to come up and rub yet, but I don't think I'd like it very much. I just think it's weird to walk up to a total stranger, pregnant or not and touch them anyways. I mean you wouldn't walk up to someone you didn't know and hug them. lol. Good luck to all of you!!!
- —Guest Tasha
- This is a very personal choice. I am 18 weeks pregnant with my first much longed for baby and am filled with excitement. Right now I have no problem with co-workers and family/friends touching my belly but I really do think its up to the individual and women have every right to say 'NO!' to anyone making them feel uncomfortable. For those saying pregnant woman should relax, its no big deal, don't be rude and finally the one that really annoys me..Blame our hormones!!!! You really need to shut up. Its a personal choice and no one has the right to say what anyone should or should not allow where their body and child is concerned. Yes we are protective especially if, like me, you are very nervous about things going wrong and yes we have hormones but we have a right to say 'back off' and people sitting in judgement need to show more respect and mind their own business! So far I'm fine with it but if strangers push me when I am heavily pregnant and its a hot summer I will be saying 'NO!'
- —Guest firsttimemummy1979
- I'd only allow my husband or my mom to touch it.. or my other kids.. not strangers and my friends were good enough to ask first.
- —Guest pumpkincat210
Please Leave Me Alone
- I love it when my fiancé touches my belly but everybody else hands off please People don't ask they just do and expect me to deal I'm sorry yes I have a cute little baby bump with a wiggly little girl inside but she doesn't seem to like being poked and prodded either I just feel invaded you wouldnt touch a baby a stranger was carrying don't touch them while they are inside
- —Guest Destiny
- How would people react if someone went up to a non-pregnant woman and started touching her belly, that would be sexual harassment. How or why should it be any different is she is pregnant. No excuse. Regardless of friend, family, or stranger your touch should be invited by the woman, not asked for by you.
- —Guest Guest
not a big deal to me..
- I am 26 weeks pregnant and I don't mind to be touched as long as I know the person. It don't matter to my husband too because were proud that after 4 years I finally got pregnant. I am trying to enjoy my pregnancy so I don't mind to be touched. Its an awesome feeling when I heard them saying congratulations, praying for your safe delivery. Sometimes we make fun they ask me what cause of my belly getting so big? I just replied its ahotdog.. LOL.. take it easy mommy's to be and just enjoy your pregnancy.
- —Guest via
I didn't like being touched BEFORE!
- I'm just at 12 weeks and I'm paranoid about this already! I don't like to be touched as it is - my father-in-law has to head me off at the door if he wants a hug! One of my closest friends was the first (besides my husband, whom I'm okay with for obvious reasons) to touch my belly the other day and even THAT made me uncomfortable - I think I will seriously lose it on some random stranger if they try! I like Krissy's idea of charging for it - 5 bucks a touch! I guess I could just tell people I don't even hug my own family so I can't handle people touching me.
- —Guest Deb
- To the one that titled NO. Why do you or others feel the need to touch the belly? There is other ways to be happy for the expecting mom, then to molest her belly. I don't like the attitude that if I didn't want random people touching me, then I shouldn't of gotten pregnant. It wasn't a random person that got me pregnant, this is something that was intimate between my husband and me in our private bedroom. Touching my belly brings joy to others and discomfort to me. I'm not sure how that seems fair? I should be discomforted by others so they can feel a part of our pregnancy? Did they not notice they weren't invited to the making of the baby in the first place? I have been on the other end, w/ friends that were pregnant, didn't feel that my rights out weighed hers on invading her space and molesting her belly. I respected her and kept my hands to myself. It was not my pregnancy it was hers and her husbands. When my space is respected, it says to me, that they care and respect me.
- —Guest Kay
To each her own...
- It seems as though the people who feel it is "no big deal" for strangers to touch your belly always mention something about the fact that they love getting the attention. For the rest of us who are not attention whores, it is not about "getting over it". It is an offensive act that one only has to worry about when pregnant. It is somehow deemed acceptable only when you are pregnant. But no one goes up to an overweight person and rubs their bellies and asks how far along that hamburger is. It's ridiculous and invasive.
- —Guest je
- I truly believe that you should only touch a woman's stomach when invited to do so. To assume that it's ok to rub a persons stomach just because she's pregnant is a very, very big assumption. I'm 18 weeks pregnant and feel that it's an invasion of my personal space if it's not invited. But I think you should go with what feels right. If you are ok with it, then fine. If it feels weird, then it's your body and baby. Don't be ashamed to put up certain boundaries.
- —Guest Melinda
- I don't mind when certain close friends and family members ask then touch. Anyone else I intercept their hands, turn the belly away and say, "I've started charging $1 a touch pay up." Good way to stick up on diapers.
- —Guest Krissy
- I don't mind at all that ppl touch my belly I am 38 weeks and all my pregnancy everyone touch it I mean why be so bogus about it is not that they are touching your boobs.
- —Guest Lizz
- Ok so one day this like 4-year-old girl is standing behiend me in a line, and she askes me, "Why are you so fat?" And I say, "Honey I'm Pregnant." And her eyes got wide and she hugged my belly and wouldn't stop and I just pushed her back and kneeled down and started rubbing her belly she walked away. later I saw her and she was telling her mom, "Mommy, I'm Pregnant! And started rubbing her own belly! :D
- —Guest Keanna
Stop Touching My Belly!!!
- So I'm about Eight Months through and one day this kid comes up to me and starts rubbing my belly and kissing it and I push him away but he comes back and won't stop, and his dad comes along and apologies, then looks at my belly and starts doing the same thing his kid was doing. And his daughter does it too! Help!
- —Guest Anne