Bonding is a word used to mean the deep attachment you build with your baby. Contrary to popular belief, bonding is not something that happens over the course of a few minutes. Though it does happen more quickly for some than for others.
Here are some ways to help you build the attachment or bond with your baby:
- Eye Contact
Newborn babies see best about a foot away from their bodies, what we call breastfeeding distance. They will look at a human face for hours, particularly the eyes. We all know what our eyes can convey without words. The same is true for bonding with your baby. You can also use facial expressions as a means of bonding with your baby. - Touch
Your skin is the largest organ on your body. In the beginning body contact is an important source of heat. Your baby will warm fastest skin to skin with anyone, with something covering them. This can start at birth. After birth the daily care of a newborn often involves touch. Use these opportunities to extend this feeling to your baby. Think about trying infant massage classes. - Sounds
Did you know that your baby would rather hear your voice than the "music" in many of the toys available. Often times we think our voices aren't good enough to sing lullabies, but your baby only hears your love and affection.
