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By Robin Elise Weiss, LCCE, About.com

I was then moved into a birthing room where I would rest and hopefully contract while we waited for my doctor to arrive with further instructions. I couldn't really sleep for my excitement, and I had begun to have some very mild contractions. Eventually, at about 9:15, I was finally examined to see if I was dilated. I really didn't expect to be because of the mildness of my contractions, but to our surprise, I was already at 4! They decided to go ahead with the Pitocin, and this was administered at about 9:30-9:45. The nurses told me that it would probably be about an hour before my contractions really picked up. But about fifteen minutes later, they were becoming stronger. So I decided to get up and walk around. No sooner had my husband and I started out the door (with my IV stand in tow), I suddenly was overcome with pain and couldn't walk. After that contraction subsided, we continued on our way, and got to the end of the hallway. By then, I couldn't talk through my contractions. We headed back for the room, all the while my pain getting worse. My parents, unable to contain their excitement, and his mom showed up soon after. At about 10:45, I could do nothing but cry, and I was six centimeters dilated, so I asked for an epidural. The anesthesiologist came in at 11:00, and as nice and chatty as he was trying to be, my contractions were right on top of each other and I was still crying, and I just wanted to knock out his teeth and tell him to shut up. At 11:30 he was finished, and I was lying in bed waiting for the epidural to take effect. I couldn't feel much of anything on my left side, but on my right, there was still some sensation of pain, mostly in my hip. It wasn't unbearable, though, and I felt so much better! I lay there for about fifteen minutes, and the nurse came back in to check my dilation. She looked at me and said, "Would you be surprised if I told you you were fully dilated?" I was completely shocked! I actually started to cry because I was just getting used to the nice, warm tingle of the anesthetic, and I was going to have to push soon! Everything was just happening so quickly!

At 11:50, the doctor came in and checked me, still fully dilated and at a +2 station. The nurses began setting up for delivery, and I started crying again out of happiness and anticipation. So once they were all set up, we began to watch my contractions on the monitor, since I really couldn't feel them. I began to feel pressure to push, though, and once that came, they told me to start! I pushed 3 times to each contraction, in between being completely chatty and excited, catching my breath, and while I pushed, I could hear my husband and everyone else saying, "Look at that hair!" and "You're almost there, just a few more pushes!" I could see in the mirror her crowning, but it didn't really seem like I was that close. But I knew I was, however, when the doctor moved the mirror out of the way, put on his face guard, and draped the plastic sheet over my chest (the "landing pad," he called it). On my fourth contraction, I really could feel her head coming out, but I didn't feel any pain, just kind of a burning pressure that I pushed straight through. And I knew that once that burning pressure was gone that her head was out. I could hear all the commotion in the room, everyone exclaiming and talking, but I couldn't make out their words. I pushed once more to get her shoulders out, and then, in a flash, at 12:23 in the afternoon, I felt my daughter's body exit mine and she was placed, like a slippery fish, onto my chest. It was completely surreal, one moment she was inside me, the next, she was on my belly, purpley-white, warm, wet, and crying in big gulps. I could do nothing but cry myself; she was finally here! I remember my husband's first reaction, "Look at her fingernails!" and the reactions of everyone else on her long fingers and big feet, and all her dark hair.

They left her with me for a pretty long time before taking her to be cleaned. While she was with me, the doctor stitched up the tear in my perineum, which was about an inch long. She was perfect and healthy, 7 lbs., 14 oz., and 21 inches long. We named her Kya Elannon.

We were moved to a recovery room that evening, and my recovery went really well. The first thing I wanted to do when we got to the new room was take a shower! But during my two days in the hospital, I was up and about, not really in any pain, getting some rest, and feeling about as normal as I could!

I would have to say that my experience with birth was a very good one. A quick labor, although the epidural was really my ticket in the end, and fifteen minutes of pushing, and a basically painless recovery. Yes, I plan on doing it again, and I can only hope next time will be just as easy and enjoyable!

Jenn

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