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Missing Pregnancy

By , About.com GuideMarch 14, 2011

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I was walking down the hall at work today and I noticed a familiar waddle. It was the obvious waddle of a woman about to give birth. You could see her swollen feet and what was left of her ankles as they protruded from her slip on shoes. And I found myself envious...

What you may wonder is so enviable about this position? Having been there seven times you'd think I'd know better by now. You would think I would remember what it feels like to walk on balloons that had taken over and called themselves my feet. You would think I would remember how it felt to have so much relaxin that my pelvis was more like gelatin than bone. And you would probably assume that I was not envious.

What I miss about pregnancy are not the aches and pains, for those are actually very easily forgotten. I miss the feeling of abundant life and radiance. I miss feeling the baby moving inside when no one else knew, the feeling of having a secret that I shared with no one but my baby. I simply miss the miracle...

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March 8, 2009 at 11:47 pm
(1) E says:

My beautiful daughter is 6 days away from being three months old and I love every moment with her. But, I too have found myself envious of the pregnant moms I see while I am out and about!

I so vividly remember wanted my little one out so badly and three days later telling my overdue cousin to cherish her little one while he was still inside!

It is such a miracle and makes me love being a woman! I can’t wait to be pregnant again but will be waiting a few years for sure!

March 14, 2011 at 4:01 pm
(2) Lindsey says:

I too miss being pregnant.

March 15, 2011 at 11:42 am
(3) Kelli says:

I miss it too. It hurts my heart to think I may never be pregnant again. It is an amazing journey.

March 16, 2011 at 6:21 am
(4) Emese says:

I do too. At 8 months pregnant a colleague of mine announed that she was 6 weeks pregnant and I alreadyí envied her. We planned to have 2 kids, now we’re up to 3. :) Even the pains of birth and the difficulties of the forst weeks did not make me change my mind, I guess I was lucky with my pregnancy, delivery and the baby is a sweetheart too, so I thank Gond and hope that the next one will be justthis good. And to those who are pregnant: enjoy this time. It is truly the best period in a woman’s life. Nurturing a life is a miracle and we’re capable of this. :)

Mom of a 3 week-old baby girl

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