Pit to Distress
So have you had this happen to you or someone you love? Perhaps you're a doula or nurse and you've seen it in action? Tell us your story in the comments section.
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While my doctor certainly didn’t say this about the baby at my first birth, he did instruct the nurse to increase the pitocin until I “cried” so that I would “beg for an epidural” and “give up my stupid plans for a natural childbirth.” Let’s just say I ditched that OB. I really wish I would have thought of doing it right then and there, but I didn’t know I could do that at that point. So I’d say he tried to pit to (mom) distress.
Hannah, I’m so sorry you had this experience. It can be really difficult when you want one thing and your doctor or midwife doesn’t agree. Did you know going in that having the birth you wanted would be a fight?
Well this wasn’t my doctor, but another doctor from the practice. My doctor was thrilled about my plans, she is the one who actually convinced me to do it, since she had a baby right before I got pregnant. She told me it was much easier on mom, baby and recovery. I did meet the doctor who was on call that day in the office. He smiled and said we’d see how labor unfolded, because we couldn’t predict. That sounded reasonable to me. The problem is that what unfolded were his beliefs that everyone should have an epidural while he blasted the baby out with pitocin. I knew it was possible to get a doctor other than mine, but I NEVER thought that someone in the practice would have directly opposing view points. Nor did I believe that this doctor would change so drastically once we were in the delivery room.
Another reason to consider birth away from a hosptial where pit won’t be a consideration. I had pit augmentation with my first and hypercontracted for hours before my in distress baby was pulled from my body – a 3rd degree episitomy and a doctors hands – felt as bad as a section
By the time I had my second I knew better and had an amazing MW that did not believe in interventions without serious medical need.
I am 56. My oldest child is 30. Let’s just say that labor was a long time ago, however. in my mind it is happening. I was ” pitted” because ” Dr. out of town” reason. I ripped my episotomy and had to have my anal and vaginal spincters sewn together a week after delivery. If they did this to men they would have a Geneva Convention on torture. My husband is an anesthesiologist and I hear what they are doing to women and unborn babies most everyday. We have to stop this torture. It lasts a lifetime as I can tell some ” problems” that I belief are long lasting on both physical and mental of both me and my daughter.
Someone should start a blog so that people could see which doctors are pro Pit and which aren’t, sort of like an Angie’s or Craig’s list.
After you are in labor its pretty hard to just get up and walk out the door.
There is The Birth Survey at: http://thebirthsurvey.com
Women can rate docs and midwives after birth and others can view the ratings.
@Tanya, Thanks for sharing your story. Your correlation to the Geneva Convention is so true.
I also blogged about my experience of seeing a woman pitted to distress 3 times in the same labor…which included being given Pitocin without her knowledge, and against her specific instructions less than 15 minutes prior! http://knittedinthewomb.com/wp/?p=470